FOR-GIVE is part of the set of Tools called TOOLS OF MOVING FORWARD. In truth, this is the GOGI “safety”Tool. This Tool gives you permission to get a safe distance from harmful people, places, and things.
When you are a safe distance from harm you will naturally find yourself giving back to others. When you are under attack or in danger, you may become selfish and uncaring. As a safety Tool, FOR-GIVE has you asking what you need to do to get a safe distance from harm. In asking that question, you are putting yourself in a position to be a benefit to yourself, your family, friends, and community. When you are safe from harm, you will undoubtedly begin to give back to others. FOR you to GIVE, you must be SAFE FROM HARM. Get safe, then give back with your handy Tool FOR-GIVE. FOR–GIVE as a Tool is not about forgiveness. The two are different. FOR–GIVE is a Tool, not a concept. Most religions and cultures teach the power of forgiveness, which frees you from many negative emotions and feelings. The difference is that the GOGI Tool FOR–GIVE can help you come to a greater understanding and easier application of forgiveness in your life.